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Nonconsensual Relationships

General Information

Sexual Harassment is any unwanted sexual attention.

Sexual Harassment

  • Can be intentional or unintentional.
  • Creates an intimidating or hostile environment.
  • Interferes with the student’s well-being.
  • Is often directed toward a peer or subordinate.
  • Is intertwined with many forms of violence and oppression against women.
  • Is one of the most underreported crimes due to fear of retaliation and feelings of shame or guilt. Yet surveys show that 20-70% of all women college students experience some form of sexual harassment during their four years in college.
  • Are behaviors unwanted by the recipient.

Types of Sexual Harassment

  • Quid Pro Quo (Latin term meaning “This for That,” i.e., “If you go out with me, I will help you with . . .”)
    • Benefits that depend on sexual favors.
    • Punishments for refusing to conform to requests.
  • Hostile Environment
    • Repeated unwanted behavior
    • Offensive conduct or comments

Sexual Harassment can be physical and non-physical:

  • Stalking
  • Leering
  • Comments about a person’s body
  • Sexist jokes or cartoons
  • Pressure for dates
  • Sexually explicit gestures
  • Hooting, whistling, lip-smacking, and animal sounds
  • Sexual innuendoes
  • Leaning over, invading a person’s space
  • Unwelcome touching or hugging
  • Love letters, obscene emails

The Impact of Sexual Harassment

  • Recipient feels victimized (may feel anxious, angry, embarrassed, guilty)
  • Creates an uncomfortable learning environment
  • Recipient’s school work suffers (may have difficulty concentrating, attending class, feeling safe in study spaces, office hours, or resident halls)
  • Recipient may suffer from physical stress related symptoms (headaches, ulcers)
  • Harasser may lose academic opportunities or be suspended (any other impacts for Harasser?)
  • Recipient may be scared to report the harassment because of threats of retaliation (lowering grades, withholding recommendation, committing violence)

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On-Campus Resources

Sexual Violence Prevention and Response Program (SVPRP) provides comprehensive and integrated education, support and advocacy about sexual and relationship violence. The program supports survivors and fosters individual and collective action to end sexual and relationship violence. 

For more information about nonconsensual relationships go to the Barnard-Columbia Rape Crisis/Anti-Violence Support Center

Disciplinary Procedure for Sexual Misconduct 212 854 1717 

Barnard Health Services 212 854 2092

Barnard clinician on-call 212 666 5838 

Barnard Furman Counseling Services 212 854 2092 

Barnard Public Safety 212 854 3362 

Counseling & Psychological Services 212 854 2468 

Primary Care Medical Services 212 854 7426 

Columbia University clinician-on-call for after-hours health concerns 212 854 9797

Columbia University Public Safety 212 854 2796  

Nightline (10pm-3am) 212 854 7777 

Morningside Campus University Ombuds Office 212 854 1234 

Columbia University Medical Center Campus 212 305 3400

Columbia University Medical Center for Student Wellness 212 304 5564

Columbia University Medical Center Mental Health Services 212 795 4181 

Columbia University Medical Center clinician-on-call 212 305 5549 

Medical Center Campus Public Safety x99 or 305-8100 

Columbia University Medical Center Office of Equal Opportunity and Affirmative Action 212 854 5511

Off-Campus Resources

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Important Phone Numbers

General Information 212 854 2284
After-hours urgent health concerns 212 854 9797
CAVA (Ambulance) 212 854 5555
Rape Crisis/Anti-Violence Support Center 212 854 WALK
Uptown Campus Public Safety
 - On-Campus 7-7979
 - Off-Campus 212-305-8100