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Relationship violence, also known as "domestic violence" or "battering", is the use of abusive behavior by one person in an intimate relationship as a means of gaining power and control over the other person. This abusive behavior is frequently some combination of physical, sexual, psychological, emotional and/or economic abuse. 

Relationship violence is rarely an isolated incident, rather it is a recurring pattern of coercive behaviors that often escalate over time. Relationship violence is not limited to any racial, ethnic, or religious group, economic or social class, sexual orientation, or age group.

Getting Help

If you feel unsafe in your relationship:

• Remember that violence is not your fault. No one deserves to be hurt.
• Trust yourself. If you feel that there maybe something wrong in your relationship, but you can't identify exactly what it is or don't know what to do about it, seek help. 
• Reach out for help from friends, family, and professionals whom you trust. Talking to somebody can help you sort out your feelings and may make you feel better.

Know your rights and options.

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Sexual Violence Prevention and Response Program (SVPRP) provides comprehensive and integrated education, support and advocacy about sexual and relationship violence. The program supports survivors and fosters individual and collective action to end sexual and relationship violence. For more information go to the Sexual Violence Prevention and Response Program.

The Barnard Columbia Rape Crisis/Anti-Violence Support Center provides peer counseling and advocacy services for survivors and co-survivors of sexual and relationship violence. For more information go to the Barnard-Columbia Rape Crisis/Anti-Violence Support Center.

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